Confessions of an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore.
Once I decided to leave my home town in Tamil Nadu the destination
was clear and so was my Pursuit to choose a career that would make
me richer sooner.I was clear on one matter of concern life is short
and live king size and choose a short cut to achieve the same and
when i joined the team at Bangalore Girl Friends Experience team I
wasn't disappointment and It was an amazing experience from there
on and i experienced the sophistication and class i dream.
Sooner I was the topper in my team as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore and a favorite among my clients and I really loved the celebrity high class life in Bangalore.
I found plenty very interesting clients here in Bangalore and very Interesting stories to tell and with my current life style i have no one to share the same and penning my thoughts here to share my experiences as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore.
When I first came to Bangalore I was lucky enough to locate this agency Bangalore Girl Friends Experience and Immediately joined them as an high end Escort in Bangalore and I had two sides of coin in my life one as a normal Brahmin lady with friends and an extended family and friends and the other life that was full of secrets and Surprises almost every day and i could not control at moments when i am not able to share my best of experience in my career an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore with some body and had this honor of writing experience to share my thoughts with my clients who will very well appreciate ( ! ) my level of thoughts.
When in my home town my life was a messed up with my family problems loans and all other regular stuffs in a typical middle class set and it just dawned one fine day that i may be a sinking in a quagmire and the more the days passed i felt I was sinking more in the quagmire and decided to move on and that's when i inherited from my Family my family debts.
When i a kid I suffered enough abuses from my step father and started to have a string of boyfriends in my home town . Not a good start i know but this had a bearing on my life I got taken into care of my sister and when i was 12 and I had attempted suicide when i was 15 had sought counselling from then on and I was under numerous therapists but the damage was done..
Growing up in my home town in Tamil Nadu I was mostly an introverted child . I didn't like people or liked getting close to people and I would lock myself up in my bedroom for hours together and then then i met a friend at school , her life was messed up as mine and We went out partied and we got spoiled in the very beginning of my life and things went down hill from there took everyday as it came my way and I partied / Drunk literally 24 /7 . I abused alcohol When i was not drinking i would be with any of my boy friends and I was living the fast life meeting people and meeting men . I was getting attention and loving it and did understand that my beauty was the magnetic side which made myself attracted to many men around me and my life was mad and going no where.At the prime age of my teen I was spoiled enough and I would sleep with different guys and I loved the attention and guys would say i am a beautiful lady then i would know i had to have them and In fact on some days i had to sleep with 3 guys in a night and I had a high sex drive in my prime teen age and thought attention from male gender was a mint in the Ice.
That is when one of my friend introduced me to another friend of hers from Bangalore. She was an amazing lady and we all went out drunk and partied and here I was alluded about my new friend we may call her Natasha for the name sake and where she get her all the money from and she had Stinking money flowing out of her her designer bag and i did asked her she said she modeled and I believed her then as she was Charming Chocolate baby.
The day dawned on me one fine day she ( Natasha ) confessed she is an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore working with Bangalore girl friends Experience and cracked my mind with the thought why have sex for free when you can get paid well.
Here Started my day and I still Remember it was July 23 rd 2010 and from that point in my life I Started to look into my future myself and me alone and I was pretty cloudy in judgment but i try anything once and Natasha told me her clients in Bangalore paid her 10,000 for an hour of sex.
And from that day i pestered her to make myself the same as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore and put an end to my percent mess up here with my family set up and she told me , its not as easy as what you think . But she did introduced me to Bangalore Girl Friends Experience team.
All went well from there on and my life as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore was one big party from there on. Life were excellent . I shopped in MG Road till i dropped , and I partied all night in the best clubs in Bangalore and yes made good and enough money for my savings and I was getting a reputation in rich circles in Bangalore for the discretion and here in Bangalore discretion is key and rich and famous men in Bangalore pay good money for it .
This is how i started
Nice to hear my beginning of my story and that's how my career as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore started and where i am now is because of my Company Bangalore Girl Friends Experience and this how i moved on with my life when i started to work as an Independent high class Escort in Bangalore.
"A high end escort in bangalore speaks"
Sex is too easy to get today. We live in a society where everything
is easy, and that can be a turn-off. That's not what the men who
contact me want. These are very wealthy and successful men, some
from well-known companies, and they can get sex anywhere. They like
to be challenged and want something more subtle, and the successful
women in this business offer them that.
Seduction is an endangered skill, and that's my favourite part of the process. When I interact with someone, even from the first email, what we are trying to do is seduce each other. It's like a dance. I use the term "companionship" for what I do, because there is a spectrum. On one side you have straightforward sex for money, and on the other you have full-blown relationships. I see myself as being somewhere along that continuum.
I charge INR 20,000/ a day, and spend no less than two days with a client. I do it no more than once a month. I always take time to get to know the person first - we email, have lunch and talk on the phone - so I have never been in a situation where I have felt scared. We might go to a social or business event - they introduce me as their friend from wherever- or it might be more personal and romantic. They know that we're going to get some private time afterwards, but the sex is just the icing on the cake.
Most men find me through our website
and I also have a social network of wealthy friends. I don't have a full-time job but I have things that I'm doing. The men prefer it that way, and it's important psychologically: you don't get too immersed in their world.
So much today is not clear. If you go on a date is the guy supposed to open the door for you or not? Are you supposed to offer to pay? In this sort of relationship, each party's responsibilities are clearer. I enjoy that. Men I go out with are very intelligent people, and it is a mutually stimulating environment.
I think it is a common female fantasy to be in this business. I get a lot of emails saying: "It's so exciting, I've always wanted to do it." Anyone can do it but the numbers are against it: it's like wanting to be a ballet dancer. I always wanted to do it, since I was little. It was mysterious, and I like intelligent and influential men. The women in this business are quite influential, too. I've helped people close business deals. There is that free consultation component.
I had to learn myself. About two years ago, I saw the blogging phenomenon and thought, what can I do that's novel? I thought the business was sleazy, and I wanted to make it less so. My first time I was nervous, but we had fun and still keep in touch.
An escort needs a combination of talents. You don't need to be a supermodel - I'm a tall, slim , but there are more beautiful women out there. It can be intimidating for men if you are incredibly stunning. They want someone subtle, intelligent and well versed in life. They have to feel comfortable talking to you about anything, whether business or their family.
About 50 per cent are married. I've heard that sometimes their wives know. In a lot of cases they no longer have sex. Surprisingly, some women feel less threatened if a man hires someone like me than if he had an affair with his secretary. I don't see what I do as wrong. If he's married then something is dysfunctional or some part of the relationship must be broken. Maybe he can't get divorced because he's worth a Crore rupees. I do have relationships, with clients and others. It can be tricky. I think jealousy is a human trait, and a healthy one, so I treat it on a case-by-case basis. You have to judge at what stage to tell them. Fundamentally I am a romantic person, and I don't feel that's a contradiction. I want to share as much of my life as I can with my partner, and eventually all of my life. I do want to get married. There is a strong romantic component to what I do: it's all about mystery and seduction. If we have a good time for a weekend then sometimes it is quite sad to leave.
I'm not worried that my future husband might be appalled by what I do. The men I get along with are typically very moral people but they have their own internal compass. It means they are a little unconventional, and that's why we have that fit. My past doesn't change who I am: it just makes me a little more colourful. Recently, the majority of my [non-paying] partners have known what I do - or part of it. You don't have to tell everything.
My family don't know what I do, and I would prefer them not to. My close friends know. My ability to pull it off doesn't surprise them - they know I'm good at multi-tasking - and I don't think anyone has been shocked.
For me, this is a temporary thing, although I cannot put an exact date on when I will stop. It's a very good way to learn about people - what makes them happy and sad.
I have also changed my approach to wealth: I get to see extremely wealthy people and they face the same challenges as everyone else. It makes me more philosophical. It doesn't mean anything to have an apartment in Bangalore and a house in Mysore you may be locked into an unhappy marriage or not able to find a woman to share your life with. It actually becomes harder to date - you don't know who's genuinely looking for love and who's looking at your money. For lots of young, successful men, wealth above a certain level can be a barrier to a good relationship.
The reality is that the market for this is very small. It's kind of like a bell curve. Most of the market is in the middle - straightforward sex for money. The higher end requires not just more money but more time. And in our society time is the most precious thing of all.
Iswarya Shetty now part of