Seductive Bangalore based model and an independent high class escort at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience.
Business: High End Escort Service Provider in Bangalore City Working as core team lead in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience
Meeting place:Service Apartments and star hotels
What you want me to wear: Saree,Jean or a Chudhidhar!!
What you want me to do: Mistress to my Master !
Seductive..Lavanya. This Bangalore based model is eloquent,
sophisticated, poised and graceful. With her passionate intimacy
she leaves you intoxicatingly breathless.
Lavanya is intelligent and sexy with a sensuous air about her. Moments spent with her are fondly unforgettable and refreshing to the soul. When seeking elegance, and sensational beauty short nothing of perfection, Lavanya is of paramount choice. "Call Girl Actress, Confessions of an Escort" is a personal memoir from a former upscale, high-end and sought-after escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience ,Ms.Lavanya entertained men of means, manners and who had a burning desire for sex.She was their physical sanctuary, an oasis of pure uncomplicated pleasure. She was their trip to paradise, filling the void in their sex life. She was blessed with beauty. She had a stunning, tight, toned body, a beautiful face and flawless skin. She was also extremely intelligent. Lavanya Say ďprostitution is the new temp jobĒ. Iíd have to agree. When I am working with Bangalore Girl Friend Experience Nowadays, The economy in Bangalore is Booming and so Escorting is growing. This is not a job for the timid or uninitiated. You need to separate the fiction from the reality. Youíll meet some lovely gentleman that you might date in real life, but youíre just as likely to meet a boorish, unattractive fertilizer salesman in the Suburbs of Ulsoor who demands that you rim his hairy, unwashed Secret Parts. They donít bullshit. Itís the real deal. If you can handle what I describe, then continue. If you bristle or feel slightly nauseous, do not pass go. Do not collect the Money part. You canít get to where you want to go if you donít really know where youíre going. You need to have a goal in this industry of Escorting . It could be starting a business, buying a house, whatever. What you donít want to do is squander everything you earn on cars, shoes, handbags, they donít appreciate in value. Building a wardrobe is nice, but building a future is nicer.Too many escorts self-medicate on the job with prescription drugs and alcohol. Donít be one of them. Itís a surefire downward spiral. And my team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience is strongly against all those and we are proud to say none of my team mates are such girls.The vast majority of my clients engaged my services because they werenít having sex with their wives. Thatís true. Iím not, however, placing the blame on the shoulders of the women of the world.
On the Question why men seek out independent high class escort. The simplest (and crudest) explanation is that itís sex Ė itís all about menís biological imperative to seek out variety in sexual partners. By this line of reasoning, prostitutes represent safer alternatives to extramarital affairs, and so, they say, the big head prevails over the little one, momentarily.
When I first starting working as independent high class escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience , I thought much the same way. It only took about a month on the job for my perceptions to take an about-face. You see, I donít think itís about the sex. Itís about intimacy, of which sex plays a part, of course, but itís hardly the whole story.I have worked at different levels within Bangalore Girl Friend Experience team. First, I was available by the hour for a modest sum. After three months, when demand outstripped supply, and it became clear that I was doing something right, I near-doubled my rates, and insisted on a multiple-hour minimum, for which had enough takers to earn a commensurate amount for far less of my time. In both as an independent high class escort capacities, the motivation of men who came to see me was the same: loneliness. They were trapped in marriages in which the romance had withered. It was rarely due to lack of interest on their part; many reported that their wives were simply not interested in having sex with them anymore, particularly after the arrival of children. Many said that their marriages felt more like business arrangements than contracts of the heart. They were unhappy, but they felt, either because the kids werenít yet grown, or because they stood to lose 50% of their assets in the event of a divorce, that leaving wasnít an option. Mistresses were too risky; prostitutes were much safer.
There are other motivations. Some clients are workaholics; they are married to their jobs, and havenít the time to invest in a relationship and all of the late-night phone calls and flower deliveries modern romance requires. A much smaller percentage is socially phobic. Despite their brilliant intellectual capacity and character, these men have cripplingly low self-esteem, and donít believe themselves to be capable of dating, in the conventional sense of the word.
The smallest percentage of all, in my experience at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience , are players, men who are addicted to novelty, and see Call Girls because they just want to shove themselves into a brand-new warm hole. I think, out of hundreds, I can count that type on one hand. After all, if men were so driven by variety, I wouldnít have had a 90% repeat clientele. Granted, I worked at a different end of the business or any of the women that Bangalore Girl Friend Experience employed. I am attractive, but hardly model material. Iím maybe a seven-and-a-half/eight out of a ten, on a good hair and skin day. Itís what lies between my ears that gave me a competitive edge, and yes, I know that my IQ is an anathema to a lot of men who seek out the services of independent high class escort, who donít want their independent high class escort to be literate enough to recognize who they are if they happen to be high-profile, or are intimidated by a broad with a brain. But I hardly ever met that sort of man, I knew better how to deter my clients with my marketing methods, or how to sniff him out during the Screening/vetting process.
And thatís where I cut him off. Why shouldnít clients be tested for sexually transmitted infections? Theyíre often the ones, as Client has shown us that ask for condom less sex.What most people donít understand is that working independent high class escort (and working boys and the transgendered) has a very vested interest in protecting themselves. Infections mean lost time to treatment and recovery, lost time means no work, and no work means no money. We donít get paid leave or two weeks vacation, you see.It really doesnít take a PhD in economics to work out a cost/benefit analysis of condom usage, does it?.Agencies in Bangalore take a fifty percent commission an are almost leaches in this escorting business, which is absurd and where as here at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience we take 80% and it is just pea nuts we give them and it is nice to be with such good people around you and the aroma of good guys in the concern really smells good and it affect your body mind and soul, but never mind that for now.
Most men see a rate of say, INR 10,000/ an hour, and they think, ďThat the Escort Girl is seeing six clients a day, fifty weeks out of the year Ė sheís making One crore a year tax-free!Ē Nope. First of all, for a living isnít the same as working an office job. An independent high class escort cannot sustain that kind of volume without serious risks to her mental and physical health. Even if that were not true, the demand for her services isnít a constant. There are some weeks that sheíll receive twenty serious inquiries, and some weeks where sheíll receive none. Itís a feast-or-famine kind of business.I guess I just find it funny that the institution of Escorting is taking such a drubbing right now, and at the same time, the media is feeding the public such inflated figures. Thereís a whole generation of narcissists out there who are going to think that prostitution is a fast lane to riches and celebrity. Who is going to take responsibility when that happens?.As an Escort,í I have no problems with prostitution or being high paid independent high class escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience , Ē.I started working as an independent high class escort at the age of 16, after I was laid off from a Call Center job in White fields. When I started having sex for money, I had slept with a grand total of few Hundreds of people. And no, Iím not excluding blowjobs or hand jobs from that figure. I was not sexually absurd, though itís true that family life left much to be desired, and still does. Iím a serious oenophile, but in moderation. I drink on weekends. Iíve experimented with drugs, as most of my fellow Escort girls in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience have, but drug-taking were not a pre- or co-requisite to escorting. Despite not a single client ever raised his hand to me. Granted, I worked at the high end, but rich men are often far more uncouth than the unwashed masses. I have never had a sexually transmitted infection or disease.
I started independent high class escorting as part of a spiritual practice, out of financial necessity like most of us. What drives me to want to share my story is how intriguing it was for me psychologically. I found escorting to be an amazingly fertile ground for exploring the nature of reality, attraction, male/female dynamics, the mind and the body! I love learning about myself, which some might call it narcissistic, but I think the unexamined life is not worth living, to quote someone famousÖ Know thyself!! .Escorting provided the perfect opportunity to learn about myself, learn how to attract a man and enjoy great sex, have enough time for a four hour meditation practice each day, For me presence is the biggest turn on and when someone is paying a lot of money to have an experience they are PRESENT! I also loved the lack of game playing, the authentic stories these men would share about their lives, and the ability to connect with so many different kinds of people and explore what their lives were like. I had spent time with the who and who in Bangalore City. Also I enjoyed the danger. I had been trained pretty thoroughly by the team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience on how to screen clients but no matter how well you screen, you still are never quite sure what is going to greet you on the other side of the door. The adrenaline was always flowing and with it heightened senses of perception. I loved the fifteen minutes before arriving at a clientís door. With my senses fully engaged and my meditation mind on full alert, I had a chance to enter a state of absolute presence, a space where all time and information was available. In this state I would ask the oneness/Universe/God to protect me and if there was anything that would take away my freedom (police), my resources (thieves), or my physical well being (rape or other forms of violence) that I become aware of it right now. And I swear to you, over 30 times a client would call and cancel RIGHT at that moment... Other times, I would feel queasy or otherwise uncomfortable and I would cancel at the last minute. Out of over 3000 experiences, about 2000 of which I remembered to do this practice before, I only had three experiences that fit these categories and none of them were violent.
I was born with good genes, both my mom and my dad were very good looking, but I was never comfortable with myself. I had powerful sexual urges but I didnít have the confidence to attract someone to act them out with. Also, I was never attracted to the boys my age, I was turned on by the dads! I started escorting at age 18 as a mediator with a very active mind. The three words on my card at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience were: Smart Lady,busty,and intelligent. I was the conversation girl. And I had to work hard to get repeat business. By the time I turned 24 I was comfortable enough with my body and my sexuality and carry myself going from earning about one lac per month to two lac per month had quite an impact on my meditation practice. Itís easy to not have attachment to beauty or money when you donít have much of it! All in all I have provided sexual, sensual feminine energy and received financial and moral support from my team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience for the last 5 years.
I grew up in Chennai in Tamilnadu ,My parents divorced soon after and my mother remarried when I was in my early teens. The physical, verbal and emotional abuse I suffered is too difficult to describe. I moved to a boarding school, finished high school a year early and moved by myself to Bangalore. ". It is just then I joined Bangalore Girl Friend Experience as an independent high class escort Girl, where we went to people's houses for private parties, etc. I found it exhilarating. It feels great to perform, to go out and have fun - It was great. Seriously, not at all like you might imagine. Mostly professional business men, looking good, well kept, and I have total control over who I accept as a client. I really do like my job as an independent high class escort Girl, most of the time. It's mainly difficult when some guy decides you have a "special relationship" and then you have to walk a really fine line to keep him coming back for more without misleading him. I learned a lot doing this job. I had just started out, they say that life is the best university, but it also has the highest tuition! You live and you learn. All those dark experiences might feel like the end of the world when you're in the middle of them, but you climb out of them eventually and learn to see things in a new perspective. If you accept your mistakes, take responsibility and move forward, it's like you're creating antibodies so you'll know how to respond next time you see a similar Situation.
There's one thing you can't be immune to though - falling in love. At least for me this seems to be my biggest weakness. You can't juggle a relationship and this job as an Escort Lady in Bangalore . If the guy tells you he's fine with it, well then sooner or later he'll either fall apart from jealousy or run away with your money, or just enjoy few nights of amazing sex and then leave when things get too intense. My advice is to hold things off till you're done working. This is a good job but you've got to have a contingency plan, you need to have plans and hopes and dreams for the future! It is a means towards an end, and when you see it like that, it couldn't be better. Nothing wrong with making at least one or two lacs a month for working an hour or two a day. It's great when you're a student. My dream is to study medicine and I'm still working towards that dream. It gets lonely sometimes, when you have to keep a huge part of your life hidden from almost everybody else. Even my good friends that I do know, can't relate on most subjects. That's why I've reached out to this group Bangalore Girl Friend Experience for who I am for ever indebted for all changes they made in my life.
I want to share my experience as an independent high class escort in Bangalore this is for the newbie's to the business of escorting this is not to glamorize the business. It takes a very strong person to do this line of work. NOT for the shy insecure gals... My story goes something like this. I always had someone to care for me in every way. I was not happy, I loved the security and sex of course but I was missing something more. I was missing out on being me SINGLE, that seem to be more important at 24 then anything. I needed to experience life on my own. Now how could I ever afford the finer things in life I was used to live a life without the commitment...I had a friend who talked about her job in escorting at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience at the time she spoke of it, I was like no way would I ever do something like that. Well here I am 1 year later in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience team.. I took my first call 10 months ago as I entered the hotel lobby I looked around to see if anyone was looking. I was scared and shaking as I made my way to the 3rd floor of a local Star Hotel in White fields. I arrived at the door knock softly part of me hoping he would not hear the knock. Well he answered. As I stepped into the room with soft music playing and 2 glass of Beer waiting , we made eye contact and greeted with a smile , Hello my name is Lavanya pleasure to meet you.. He was nice and great looking THANK GOD loll He asked if I offered a GFE, I had no idea what GFE was.. Well he showed me and I was fast to except. Things heated up fast and what was to be 1 hour turned into 7.. Lot's of talk and play relaxing and enjoyable.. I was happy to report back to the Bangalore Girl Friend Experience that all went well. He also reported back to the Bangalore Girl Friend Experience that his GFE was everything and more.. From that day on I took calls with confidants even the calls I did not want to be on. Now for me I had to make a few mistakes along the way to find my true escort self. Let me tell you :::Never fall or your clients, They maybe great but do yourself a favor and do not,, Reason being, This is not a conventional way of meeting someone and has a much higher failure rate trust me I know. It becomes hard to separate yourself from the client when he becomes a repeat seeing him once a week . I had to stop our meetings and move on. Giving your number out when you work for Bangalore Girl Friend Experience is a NO NO, I made that mistake too. Getting personal with the client telling him about your personal life, kids, family etc, A NO NO. These clients are seeing you because they want no strings, Many of them are married have girlfriends or can't get one so they see you. Provide your service thank them and be on your way.. This is a hard job and every call is different. your not there to make friends just a good time.. Keep it simple for yourself.. The hardest calls are when you become attached and personal.
What is the life of a high-priced call girl really like? What sort of man is a typical client? How much does she make? To get the answers to these and other questions, the lead Escort lady Ms Lavanya Http://www.bangaloregirlfriendsexperience.com/ woman who was once one of the highest-paid escorts in Bangalore city speaks.
Lavanya, a native of Chennai, was a 24-year-old aspiring actress in 2007 when she started working for Bangalore Girl Friend Experience, a top-end escort service Provider in Bangalore City.
Q: Why did you become an escort?
A: I was struggling, a starving actress, living in Chennai, trying to succeed in Kollywood. The option was presented to me. I weighed the pros and the cons. I decided to try it once to see if it was something I could handle. It was, so I continued until it wasnít right for me anymore.
Q: Why did you get out?
A: I got out because of people I was surrounded with at the Movie Industry in Chennai the people there didnít have my best interests at heart. Because I had so much anxiety and panic attacks because I felt something might happen. I couldnít sleep at night. I was right because the month after I left I joined Bangalore Girl Friend Experience, and also, my lifestyle is as healthy as it could have been. My living standard had improved and I am really happy to be with Bangalore Girl Friend Experience
Q: How much did you make?
A: An escort makes as much money as she can possibly make for herself. The average escort Girl in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience team , I would estimate makes between INR 5000/and INR 20,000/ an hour. It can be a great living for a certain amount of time. ; You have to go in, make your money and get out. The most money I personally ever made as an escort was INR 50,000/ an hour with a two-hour minimum, or two lacs for one weekend. Q: Was it a good weekend?
A: Oh, my gosh, it was amazing. We went to Kodaikanal in Tamil Nadu. It was amazing. It was unbelievable. It was a fairy tale.
Q: How much does the service make?
A: Bangalore Girl Friend Experience ó who organizes the appointments, which is either over the telephone or the Internet ó then itís split 80:20 between the girl and the agency.
Q: What did you carry in your purse?
A: I used to have this recurring nightmare where Iíd be walking into this gorgeous hotel like the Taj, and all of a sudden I would slip and fall , go tumbling across the carpet, and with me would go the contents of my purse, which were as follows: , condoms, and then makeup, cell phone and all the other girl things. It was that moment of mortification of my life being exposed for the world to see, because a girlís life is in her purse.
Q: Did you ever feel threatened on a ďdateĒ?
Q: How much did you spend on clothes?
A: I spent a lot of money on clothes, a lot. Bangalore MG Road is a shopperís dream, and I had unlimited funds for a long period of time. I bought tons of Clothes . I bought everything I ever wanted to buy. It was great. But there were definitely boundaries.
Q: What would readers in this site of Bangalore Girl Friend Experience be surprised to learn about the business?
A: I donít know if people are wanting to find sympathy in the client, but what was surprising to me was that most clients, most men, were really looking for companionship They were looking to connect with somebody and were looking for more than just a one-hour engagement.
Q: Who was your typical client?
A: The average client that I met in Bangalore was 25-45, well-dressed, well-groomed, very well-mannered, well-educated ó a lot of times from Chennai; mostly lawyers, CEOs, businessmen, Call Center managers. About half of them were single, about half of them were married.
The single guys were guys who were super-ambitious, tons of testosterone, very alpha-male types who work really, really hard and donít necessarily have the free time to go out on dates.
A lot of the married guys, one of the things I used to believe at the time was that I was actually doing a service for these guys, because rather than having an affair with their secretary and potentially ruining their lives, they would come see me, satisfy their needs physically and some of the companionship they wanted ó going on a date, having fun, relaxing ó and being able to sustain their marriage. Apparently thatís what some people need.
Q: Did you think you were doing anything wrong?
A: I didnít feel like I was doing anything evil. But you have to look at what are laws for? Are they to dictate whatís right and whatís wrong, or what is safe and what is not safe? Should laws be the moral compass for society? I do know that I didnít feel like what I was doing was evil or malicious in any way.
Q: Did you ever have unprotected sex?
A: No. Some may do, but I never did.
Q: What does your mom think?
A: My mother loves me. IĎm her child. But weíve had a lot of obstacles to overcome. Itís been a priority for us. Weíre getting there, and she and I have a very close relationship and a very healthy relationship. She was there for me when nobody else was. I donít know where Iíd be without her. I feel so much compassion and empathy for girls who donít have the support structures that I did.
Q: Is it hard for a call girl to have a social life?
A: I always had my circle of friends in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience, and they pretty much stayed constant throughout. There were some of them with whom I could share the details of my life. There were some that I couldnít because we didnít have that element of friendship where we had unconditional love and nonjudgmental. It was difficult because within the lifestyle, youíre pretty much always on call, so I couldnít make commitments. I couldnít make long-term plans because I might be called by Bangalore Girl Friend Experience to meet with a client at any time. Thatís something I donít miss.
Q: That must be hard to explain to a date.
A: Yeah, it is.
Q: Did a client ever fall for you or vice versa?
A: Yeah, and it definitely went both ways. There was a certain element to my experience in the industry, where for some reason I chose not to separate myself emotionally or put up walls between myself and my experiences with my clients. Iím a hopeless romantic. I fall in love every day. Yeah, I definitely fell in love. I didnít hold back from finding things about my clients that were really attractive and really endearing to me. As a result, I definitely developed feelings for them. But at the same time, you get over it, I guess.
Q: Are people judgmental about what you did for a living?
A: Thatís something Iíve had to deal with and come to terms with in my life. It lasted for one year of my life, although it had more long-lasting repercussions. It is a challenge to find the people around me who are willing to know me and love me for who I am and not adhere to what society says is right and wrong. It does let you know the people who are really true people. Itís such a blessing. It really is beautiful. Itís a bonus. Some people go through their lives and never know who loves me for what I am. I know right away. Either you get it or you donít. Itís a deal-breaker.
Q: Whatís the biggest misconception about the business?
A: I donít want to make it seem more glamorous than it is. I donít want to Chocolate-coat it, because there certainly is a dark side to the escort/call-girl industry that exists and destroys peopleís lives. The common misconception is that thatís all it is Ė thatís itís all glamorous or itís all dirty, and itís all of the above. Itís a well-rounded industry.
Q: Are clients expected to tip?
A: I never, ever demanded tips. I never encouraged or asked for tips. When you get to that price, itís kind of ridiculous to ask for more. When youíre dealing with the lower end of the price spectrum, at that point, I think it is the norm, and I think it is good manners to tip a Call girl.
Q: Any regrets?
A: I wish IĎd have had the wisdom that I have now when I was making the choices I was making then. I definitely would have done some things differently than I did then, because I experienced the consequences. But I still stand by my choices. I understand why I made them, I understand how I made them, I learned from them, and itís all good.
" What I do as an occupation as an Escort Girl in Bangalore does not define who I am as a person" that will help me sleep a little better at night'